I often find that couples feel like they can improve things by telling their partner what isn’t working for them in their relationship or by giving them “constructive feedback”. Don’t get me wrong, I do believe in being transparent and communicating honestly with your partner. However, I don’t know about you but I find myself [...]
In February I hopped on a short plane ride up to Vancouver, Canada. I love taking short trips especially when it involves surprising or supporting loved ones. This trip was for a very special occasion – my “baby” brothers 30th Birthday.
Wow how time flies. It seems just like yesterday that my dad came home from [...]
Last month I attended a luncheon and the key note speaker was Meg North Taylor the Executive Director and Founder of Lending Promise. I was touched by Meg’s dedication to support mother’s in disadvantaged countries live a sustainable life and in the process support their children achieve their dreams.
So in this month’s Pay It Forward [...]
On this weeks “The Shelby” radio show I’m excited to interview my co-host Shelby M. Hill about his new book “She says it’s complicated”.
Join us at 4 p.m. PST / 7 p.m. EST to hear all about Shelby’s newly released book. Click Here to listen.
Come hear Shelby share about how women can break out of [...]
In life we don’t get what we want – we get what we are committed to. So make sure you are living your life from conscious commitment and not old unconscious patterns.
An easy way to find out what you are committed to is by looking at the results you are producing in your life. If [...]
Many of us have the mistaken perception that once we are in the safe harbor of a relationship our partner will never again have any sexual inclinations, sexual attraction, or feel any sexual feelings for any person other than ourselves. Operating from this perception we either spend lots of time and energy controlling our partners’ [...]
Earlier today I sent out my Valentine’s newsletter to everyone in my community – a few hundred people. Less than 5 minutes after I hit the send button, a friend responded and in a loving way pointed out several spelling mistakes in my e-mail
I immediately noticed a pit in my stomach, my face flushing, and [...]
The other day on a tele-seminar with my friend Kathlyn Hendricks we were talking about commitment and how important commitment is in attracting and living in authentic, loving, intimate relationship
Kathlyn shared, often people are afraid to make a commitment because in our culture we are confronted with Result Commitments, which are commitments that we have [...]
Have you ever noticed making a decision and shortly afterwards regretting the decision. Or have you been in the situation where you decide to go to an event, for example, with your partner or date, and when you got there felt annoyed. Maybe you and your partner or date even had an argument on the [...]
Albert Einstein once said, “We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.”
I don’t think he meant this to be a powerful piece of relationship advice, however, this does apply to relationship conflict as well.
Have you ever noticed when you and your partner are caught in a [...]
